
The Pip Setup Guide
I built Pip — my AI chief of staff — inside Muse. She handles life's admin so I can build my business and be present with my kids. Here's how to build yours: connect your calendar, email, grocery list, and task list once — then just talk to it. About 25 minutes, no tech skills needed.
From the “How I AI This Week” seriesThe idea
Here's the game changer nobody tells you: it's not better prompts — it's access.
Pip isn't a chatbot I paste things into. She's an assistant I built in Muse — with access to my real calendar, my inbox, my grocery list, and my task tracker. Once it can see your life, you stop filling in blanks and start just… asking.
Even better: it can run scheduled briefs in the background — like a morning brief that shows up without you asking. Four connections, once — then it's just brain-dumps and briefs.
What you need
Make it yours
Before you connect anything — give it a personality. You'll actually use it if it feels like yours.
One message sets the tone for everything after it — and you can change it anytime.
The 4 steps
Do them in order. Each takes about five minutes. Anything in a dark box with a ⧉ Copy button gets pasted straight into Muse — tap copy, paste, hit send. That's the whole interaction.
📅 Connect your calendar
This is what makes the morning brief possible — no more pasting your schedule in.
- It'll walk you through signing in with Google — or go to Settings → Connectors and tap Google Calendar yourself.
- Tap Allow on the permission screen. Read it — it tells you exactly what you're sharing. Done.
✉️ Connect your email
This is what lets it tell you what needs a reply — instead of you forwarding emails into the chat.
- Same flow: sign in, tap Allow. (Or Settings → Connectors → Gmail.)
🛒 Connect your grocery list
Good news: no new list, no new app. Muse writes straight to your Apple Reminders — the grocery list you already have.
- On your iPhone: pair it in the Muse app — that's what gives Muse access to your Apple Reminders. (On Mac, the Muse app can reach the Reminders app directly.)
(Use whatever your list is actually called.)
✅ Connect your task list (if you have one)
Mine lives in Notion — and Muse connects to Notion directly.
- No Notion? No problem — use another Apple Reminders list the same way (pairing from Step 3 already covers it).
No Notion? Tell it instead: “My task list is my Apple Reminders list called ‘Tasks’.”
What to say now
This is the whole point: with everything connected, you don't need a prompt pack. You just talk.
The two briefs
Two rhythms that run your week together. The Sunday reset plans ahead; the daily brief keeps you on track. Between them, you stop carrying it all in your head.
🗓️ Sunday Reset
Zooms out. Reads your calendar and task list together, maps the whole week, slots in your priorities, and tells you what to prep ahead — so Monday never ambushes you.
It's Sunday. Look at my calendar and task list for the coming week and map it for me: fixed commitments first, then where my priorities fit. MY WEEKLY RHYTHMS [tell it once — it remembers]: Work: [e.g. Mon/Wed/Fri 9am–2pm] School dropoff/pickup: [e.g. dropoff 8:15am, pickup 2:45pm] Workouts: [e.g. Orangetheory Mon/Thu, yoga Wed/Fri — or "infer from my calendar"] MY PRIORITIES: [the 2–3 things I want to accomplish this week] Tell me what to prep ahead — groceries, bags, outfits, gifts — and warn me about the tightest day so I'm not blindsided.
☀️ Daily Brief
Zooms in. Walks you through today — what's on, what's tight, what needs a reply. Ask for it each morning, or schedule it once and it shows up on its own.
Look at my calendar for today and walk me through my day. Flag anything tight or back-to-back. Keep it short.
Want it automatic?
📬 “Anything need me?”
Check my email from the last 24 hours. Anything urgent or needing a reply? Give me sender, subject, and one line on what they need.
🍽️ “Plan my dinners, update my list.”
It creates the meal plan and fixes the grocery list — you don't paste anything. Fill in the family info once; it remembers.
Plan 5 weeknight dinners for my family. MY FAMILY: [who eats — e.g. 2 adults, a 4-year-old, a 1-year-old] ALLERGIES: [list them, or "none"] WE ALWAYS EAT: [___] WE WON'T EAT: [___] OUR RULES: [e.g. no repeating a vegetable in the same week; quick meals on busy nights] Check my calendar first — busy nights get 30-minute meals. We eat at [usual dinner time, e.g. 6pm]. For each dinner, give me the meal — plus: - simple staples (tacos, spaghetti, steak…): just name it, no recipe needed - anything new: include the recipe link or quick steps Then check my Apple Reminders Groceries list and add only what's missing. Don't add anything I've told you I already have.
Want your kitchen inventory, family preferences, and recipe hub all in one spot?
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What it actually looks like
My actual briefs from this week.
🗓️ Sunday Reset — week of October 5
- Mon
- Book Fair before class
- OTF 10:00
- Deedee lands 9:25 PM
- TueBrennan traveling
- yoga 9:15 (moved from Wed this week)
- Miranda Lambert 8 PM with Deedee ⚠️ tightest day
- WedBrennan traveling
- drop Deedee at the airport (departs 11 AM)
- fingerprint appointment 10:10 AM
- Monthly Budget 8 PM
- ThuBrennan traveling
- OTF 10:00
- Fri
- yoga 9:15
- Sat
- Neighbor's birthday party (lunch)
- Hocus Pocus 7:30 PM
- Sun
- Church 9–10
- Dinners:
- Mon — crispy pork chops + broccoli
- Tue — delivery night
- Thu — salmon + asparagus
- Fri — filet + Brussels sprouts + baked potatoes
- Workouts:
- OTF Mon/Thu 10:00
- yoga Tue/Fri 9:15
- Sat optional OTF
☀️ Monday, October 5
84° and sunny — warm afternoon at pickup. Short sleeves for Silas, with a light layer in his backpack for the cool morning.
- Today:
- 8:30 drop-off
- Book Fair before 10:00
- dry cleaning drop-off
- 10:00 OTF → grocery run after
- 1:40 pickup, no carpool (you're covering — nanny at the dentist 1–3)
- 9:25 PM Deedee lands
- 💪 Workout: OTF 10:00 AM
- 🍱 Silas's bento (nut-free): turkey pepperoni, cheese squares, carrots, apple slices, granola bar
- 🍽️ Dinner: crispy baked breaded pork chops + broccoli — ready 5:45, start 5:10 (pork chops already thawed)
- ⚠️ Needs your attention:
- AA changed our Hawaii flight (Jan 22) — check the new times
- Derek's birthday is tomorrow, gift task still open
- "move brow appointment" is due today
- Tomorrow:
- yoga 9:15 (moved from Wed)
- Brennan heads to Austin
- Miranda Lambert 8 PM
"Make my brief clean and minimal — blush pink and cream, simple headings."
"I like a cozy, warm look — soft neutrals, pretty serif headings."
"Give it a bold, modern feel — black and white with one accent color."
Name colors you love, or describe an Instagram account or Pinterest board whose look you like. It'll run with it.
What this gets you
What else Pip can do
Once the foundation is set, this is the next layer. Each one takes a little more setup — permissions, accounts, your preferences — but that's a one-time thing too.
These are coming soon with the Daily Brief — the next layer I'm building on top of this setup.
Join the Daily Brief waitlist →