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Pip — a cute little gear with a pink bow

The Pip Setup Guide

I built Pip — my AI chief of staff — inside Muse. She handles life's admin so I can build my business and be present with my kids. Here's how to build yours: connect your calendar, email, grocery list, and task list once — then just talk to it. About 25 minutes, no tech skills needed.

From the “How I AI This Week” series

The idea

Here's the game changer nobody tells you: it's not better prompts — it's access.

Pip isn't a chatbot I paste things into. She's an assistant I built in Muse — with access to my real calendar, my inbox, my grocery list, and my task tracker. Once it can see your life, you stop filling in blanks and start just… asking.

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Less thinking. Stop re-deciding dinner, the schedule, and what's due every single day. Ask once, get the answer.
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Planning ahead, handled. The Sunday reset reads your whole week and tells you what to prep — before you're scrambling.
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Less forgetting. It checks the calendar, the inbox, and the lists — so the thing that would've slipped gets caught.
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Lighter mental load. The swirl in your head finally gets somewhere to live outside your head. That's the whole point.
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Set it up once. The connecting takes about twenty minutes, one time. After that, you just brain-dump what's on your mind and let your scheduled briefs do the rest.

Even better: it can run scheduled briefs in the background — like a morning brief that shows up without you asking. Four connections, once — then it's just brain-dumps and briefs.

What you need

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The Muse app — get it at muse.ai or from your phone's app store, and sign up. This is where your assistant lives. Everything else gets connected inside, in the steps below.

Make it yours

Before you connect anything — give it a personality. You'll actually use it if it feels like yours.

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Name it. I named mine Pip — short, cute, a play on “radar pip”: always watching, always helping. Pick something you'll enjoy saying out loud. You choose your assistant's name when you set up the Muse app.
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Give it a look. That's Pip up top — a little gear with a pink bow, because she's the tiny thing that keeps my whole machine running. Yours can look like anything: ask any image generator for “a cute mascot of [your thing]” and make it your own.
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Tell it who you are — and how to talk to you. First message: “I'm [your name]. I'm a [mom of two / nurse / teacher / …].” Then add one of these lines:
Pick your vibe — a few ideas, but you can describe anything
Warm & direct“Be warm but direct with me.”
Short & punchy“Keep it short — headlines and bullet points, no fluff.”
Gentle & encouraging“Be encouraging and patient with me, like a supportive friend.”
Tough love“Be blunt with me. Tell me what I'm avoiding and what actually matters today.”
Fun & casual“Talk to me like a girlfriend — casual, a little funny, keep it light.”

One message sets the tone for everything after it — and you can change it anytime.

The 4 steps

Do them in order. Each takes about five minutes. Anything in a dark box with a ⧉ Copy button gets pasted straight into Muse — tap copy, paste, hit send. That's the whole interaction.

Step 1 of 4

📅 Connect your calendar

This is what makes the morning brief possible — no more pasting your schedule in.

Say to Muse: “Connect my Google Calendar.”
  1. It'll walk you through signing in with Google — or go to Settings → Connectors and tap Google Calendar yourself.
  2. Tap Allow on the permission screen. Read it — it tells you exactly what you're sharing. Done.
Test it: ask “What's on my calendar tomorrow?” If it answers with your real events, you're connected.
Apple Calendar person? You're covered too — no connector needed. On the Mac app, Muse can read your Mac's Calendar app directly (iCloud calendars included): just ask “What's on my calendar tomorrow?” and grant permission when it asks. On iPhone, pair your phone and Muse sees your calendar through it.
Step 2 of 4

✉️ Connect your email

This is what lets it tell you what needs a reply — instead of you forwarding emails into the chat.

Say to Muse: “Connect my Gmail.”
  1. Same flow: sign in, tap Allow. (Or Settings → Connectors → Gmail.)
Test it: ask “Anything in my inbox from today that needs a reply?”
Not on Gmail? Also fine. Tell Muse “connect my email” and it'll walk you through linking any provider — iCloud, Yahoo, anything. You'll need your mail server details and an app password (your email provider can generate one in a minute).
Privacy note: it can only read what you ask it to read, and you can disconnect anytime in Settings → Connectors, or in your Google account under “Third-party access.” Nothing is permanent.
Step 3 of 4

🛒 Connect your grocery list

Good news: no new list, no new app. Muse writes straight to your Apple Reminders — the grocery list you already have.

  1. On your iPhone: pair it in the Muse app — that's what gives Muse access to your Apple Reminders. (On Mac, the Muse app can reach the Reminders app directly.)
Tell it once: “My grocery list is my Apple Reminders list called ‘Groceries’. Check it before adding anything, and never add duplicates.”
(Use whatever your list is actually called.)
Test it: say “Add eggs to my grocery list.” Then open Reminders — eggs should be there.
Want it to skip what you already own? Show it your kitchen once — send Muse photos of your fridge and pantry (yes, it can read them), or just tell it: “I always have olive oil, butter, eggs, and rice.” It remembers from there. Without that, it can only avoid duplicating what's already on your list.
Get my Apple Reminders shortcuts →
Step 4 of 4

✅ Connect your task list (if you have one)

Mine lives in Notion — and Muse connects to Notion directly.

  1. No Notion? No problem — use another Apple Reminders list the same way (pairing from Step 3 already covers it).
Say to Muse: “Connect Notion.”
No Notion? Tell it instead: “My task list is my Apple Reminders list called ‘Tasks’.”
Test it: ask “What's on my task list this week?”
Steal my task tracker setup →

What to say now

This is the whole point: with everything connected, you don't need a prompt pack. You just talk.

Say this

The two briefs

Two rhythms that run your week together. The Sunday reset plans ahead; the daily brief keeps you on track. Between them, you stop carrying it all in your head.

🗓️ Sunday Reset

Once a week · Sunday night · 5 minutes

Zooms out. Reads your calendar and task list together, maps the whole week, slots in your priorities, and tells you what to prep ahead — so Monday never ambushes you.

It's Sunday. Look at my calendar and task list for the coming week and map it for me: fixed commitments first, then where my priorities fit.

MY WEEKLY RHYTHMS [tell it once — it remembers]:
Work: [e.g. Mon/Wed/Fri 9am–2pm]
School dropoff/pickup: [e.g. dropoff 8:15am, pickup 2:45pm]
Workouts: [e.g. Orangetheory Mon/Thu, yoga Wed/Fri — or "infer from my calendar"]

MY PRIORITIES:
[the 2–3 things I want to accomplish this week]

Tell me what to prep ahead — groceries, bags, outfits, gifts — and warn me about the tightest day so I'm not blindsided.

☀️ Daily Brief

Every morning · 2 minutes · daily

Zooms in. Walks you through today — what's on, what's tight, what needs a reply. Ask for it each morning, or schedule it once and it shows up on its own.

Look at my calendar for today and walk me through my day. Flag anything tight or back-to-back. Keep it short.

Want it automatic?

Your weekly rhythms — work hours, dropoff/pickup, workouts — only get told once. After that, every Sunday reset already knows the shape of your week.
No task tracker? No problem. Just brain-dump into Muse as part of your Sunday reset or daily brief — say everything you need to accomplish this week or need help managing, and it organizes it for you.
Say this

📬 “Anything need me?”

Check my email from the last 24 hours. Anything urgent or needing a reply? Give me sender, subject, and one line on what they need.
Say this

🍽️ “Plan my dinners, update my list.”

It creates the meal plan and fixes the grocery list — you don't paste anything. Fill in the family info once; it remembers.

Plan 5 weeknight dinners for my family.

MY FAMILY:
[who eats — e.g. 2 adults, a 4-year-old, a 1-year-old]
ALLERGIES:
[list them, or "none"]
WE ALWAYS EAT:
[___]
WE WON'T EAT:
[___]
OUR RULES:
[e.g. no repeating a vegetable in the same week; quick meals on busy nights]

Check my calendar first — busy nights get 30-minute meals. We eat at [usual dinner time, e.g. 6pm].

For each dinner, give me the meal — plus:
- simple staples (tacos, spaghetti, steak…): just name it, no recipe needed
- anything new: include the recipe link or quick steps

Then check my Apple Reminders Groceries list and add only what's missing. Don't add anything I've told you I already have.
The family info is the part most people skip — and it's what makes the answers actually usable. That's mine, distilled: allergies (even if "none"), the always-eats, the won't-eats, and the house rules that change the answer (like my no-repeat-a-veggie rule).

Want your kitchen inventory, family preferences, and recipe hub all in one spot?

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Need recipe inspiration? Browse some of my favorites →

What it actually looks like

My actual briefs from this week.

My Sunday reset

🗓️ Sunday Reset — week of October 5

  • Mon
    • Book Fair before class
    • OTF 10:00
    • Deedee lands 9:25 PM
  • TueBrennan traveling
    • yoga 9:15 (moved from Wed this week)
    • Miranda Lambert 8 PM with Deedee ⚠️ tightest day
  • WedBrennan traveling
    • drop Deedee at the airport (departs 11 AM)
    • fingerprint appointment 10:10 AM
    • Monthly Budget 8 PM
  • ThuBrennan traveling
    • OTF 10:00
  • Fri
    • yoga 9:15
  • Sat
    • Neighbor's birthday party (lunch)
    • Hocus Pocus 7:30 PM
  • Sun
    • Church 9–10
Heads up: Tuesday is the squeeze — yoga, Brennan gone, concert at 8. Sitter and delivery dinner already arranged.
  • Dinners:
    • Mon — crispy pork chops + broccoli
    • Tue — delivery night
    • Thu — salmon + asparagus
    • Fri — filet + Brussels sprouts + baked potatoes
  • Workouts:
    • OTF Mon/Thu 10:00
    • yoga Tue/Fri 9:15
    • Sat optional OTF
My daily brief

☀️ Monday, October 5

84° and sunny — warm afternoon at pickup. Short sleeves for Silas, with a light layer in his backpack for the cool morning.

  • Today:
    • 8:30 drop-off
    • Book Fair before 10:00
    • dry cleaning drop-off
    • 10:00 OTF → grocery run after
    • 1:40 pickup, no carpool (you're covering — nanny at the dentist 1–3)
    • 9:25 PM Deedee lands
  • 💪 Workout: OTF 10:00 AM
  • 🍱 Silas's bento (nut-free): turkey pepperoni, cheese squares, carrots, apple slices, granola bar
  • 🍽️ Dinner: crispy baked breaded pork chops + broccoli — ready 5:45, start 5:10 (pork chops already thawed)
  • ⚠️ Needs your attention:
    • AA changed our Hawaii flight (Jan 22) — check the new times
    • Derek's birthday is tomorrow, gift task still open
    • "move brow appointment" is due today
  • Tomorrow:
    • yoga 9:15 (moved from Wed)
    • Brennan heads to Austin
    • Miranda Lambert 8 PM
Want yours to look this good? Just tell Muse the vibe you want — no website or brand needed. Try one of these:

"Make my brief clean and minimal — blush pink and cream, simple headings."
"I like a cozy, warm look — soft neutrals, pretty serif headings."
"Give it a bold, modern feel — black and white with one accent color."

Name colors you love, or describe an Instagram account or Pinterest board whose look you like. It'll run with it.

What this gets you

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Monday morning: your brief is already there — calendar, conflicts, emails needing replies. You didn't open the app.
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Sunday night: “reset my week” — calendar and tasks mapped together, prep list done, tightest day flagged before it happens.
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Grocery run: the meal plan was built around your actual schedule — and once you've shown it your kitchen, the list skips what you own.
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The mental loop closes: “what's on my task list?” — it checks, instead of you trying to remember.
The honest footnote: your assistant will be yours — mine's called Pip and knows my whole household. The setup above is the foundation; what you teach it from here is what makes it personal. That's the fun part, and it's what I'll keep showing you in future episodes.

What else Pip can do

Once the foundation is set, this is the next layer. Each one takes a little more setup — permissions, accounts, your preferences — but that's a one-time thing too.

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Nights out, planned. “Find 3 trendy spots for a girls' night next Friday, check reviews, and put the best one on my calendar.”
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Book appointments. “Book me a dentist appointment next week — mornings only.” It finds openings and holds the slot for your yes.
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Repeating orders. “Every school day at 1:35, ask if I want my usual Starbucks order.” Say yes and it's placed — say nothing and it skips.
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Flight deals. “Watch prices for our spring break flights and tell me when to book.” It can also check seat availability on a flight you're eyeing.
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Kid plans. “Plan 3 local outings for the kids this weekend.” Or rainy-day mode: “It's pouring Saturday — plan at-home activities for a 4-year-old and a 1-year-old.”
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Home help. “Find a highly-rated plumber near me for a leaky faucet and get a quote.” It researches, compares, and brings you the shortlist.
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Birthday flags. Birthdays on your calendar get flagged ahead of time — with gift ideas — so you're never scrambling the night before.
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Subscription watch. It scans your inbox for renewals and free trials about to convert, and flags them before they charge you.
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Trip packing lists. “We're going to the beach Thursday — pack us.” Built from your itinerary, the weather, and who's going.
Worth knowing: these need more initial setup than the four steps above — extra permissions, a saved login or two, your preferences for things like restaurants and airlines. Start with the foundation; add these once your assistant knows you.

These are coming soon with the Daily Brief — the next layer I'm building on top of this setup.

Join the Daily Brief waitlist →
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